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April 13 Why people get married"Because we need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet ... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things ... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'." --- Shall We Dance (2004) Susan Sarandon's character, Beverly Clark, talks about why people get married This is one of the best explanations I've found. This scene touches my heart every time. 辟谣志莲净苑的照片不是我拍的, 去香港我就根本没想到有带相机的必要.....哈哈 不过看到别人拍的挺漂亮的就转载了一把(好像还是有人上当的:-P) 在此深刻道歉, 以后争取多更新照片, 不然相机要发霉了 April 08 飘落的叶子大四的夏天, 阿桑的"叶子"无处不在, 空气里也一直有她特别的嗓音在回旋, 就像是大学生活落幕的背景乐 ... 孤单是一个人的狂欢, 狂欢是一群人的孤单 ... 只依稀记得这样一句歌词 过早飘落的叶子, 似乎也带走了我的一缕回忆 March 23 志莲净苑两年后重游香港, 发现了一个闹中取静的好地方, 位于九龙的志莲净苑
大概是小时候对于灵隐之类香火旺盛的寺庙的记忆太过深刻, 一提到寺院, 印象总是香雾缭绕, 人声鼎沸.
想来是我对于佛教见识浅薄, 遍及各地的大小寺院, 应该还是有不少地方能让人凝神静思的吧
一进志莲寺的门, 香港的车水马龙, 浮华喧嚣顿时消停下来. 耳边只有似近似远的水声孱孱和清雅的乐声
漫步在庭院的小径里, 除了精心布置的花木石景, 更有随风飘来的阵阵桂花香.
寺内庭院布局的精致, 护养的阡尘不染, 让我这个见惯了园林的杭州人也心生钦佩
寺庙里的建筑也很有特点, 全寺纯以木和石建成, 简单,纯朴, 又不失中国古建筑的庄严, 让人有一种很自然的纯净感觉
March 01 Professional上星期裁员之前, 老板关照说"what ever happens, be professinal". 然后我就一直在想怎么样算是"professional"呢, 就在我打了个电话, 前后不过10分钟的功夫, 身边的同事J拿着白信封从会议室出来, 勉强笑着对我说, that's it, it has been really nice working with you. 我从座位上站起来, 震惊的一句话说不出来, 因为我一直觉得J努力工作,经验丰富, 是不可能被裁的啊.就在我还愣在那里的时候, J倒是非常镇定的收拾好吃了一半的午饭, 关掉电脑, 穿上外套, 依然微笑的对我说we'll catch up for drink next time, see you. 大家目送J离开办公室, 没有人多说什么, 很快又把目光转回自己的屏幕, 继续手上的工作, 就像刚才一幕没有发生. 也许, be professional = be a pretender, both J and us |
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